Stop Killing Yourself

How often do you cancel something that you really want, because the comments of others? And how often people retreat because of the "advice" you? Several times. Maybe often. That "murder" name.

To "assassin" and not as it does not need to enter the prison. But the woes of "killed" will take place throughout hidupya. Chilling? Indeed. Do not mengernyit first it seems massalah others. Perhaps, you also have to "murder" is. Or, you may be already "dead" since the week.

This is the story that has been long outstanding. Spread by Anthony Dio Martin. In the year 1933, is a beride Jerry Siegel created a superhero character. Figure this power stronger than iron, can fly and comes from another planet. Joe Shuster Jerry invites the clever paint to achieve this figure.

But, the super human picture at that time considered to be not interesting. Comics that unremitting behavior, time to run six years. Peak, when they both heard the editor requires Detective Comics comic strip. Full of spirit, both offer their comics.

Detective Comics editor of the works they laugh and say, "Wow, would not have believed the idea that comics like this. Twopenny image and behavior may not be sold." Flogging frustration throughout the six years (not only once that they be ridiculed), making them sell all the comics and the copyright to the value only USD 130. They both believe that their bad comic, it will not conduct, and indeed deserve segitu votes.

Not long after that, they are comic turns behavior so hard and worship to all. Until this day, leaders of the superhero was aired, ditevekan, with no measurable amount of merchandise. Who does not know Superman?

Siegel and Shuster poor living creatures when they are successful leaders. In the year 1975, when the United States pressing public Detective Comics, eventually they both get financial security.

Anthony Dio Martin mentions, what is spoken by Detective Comics to the Siegel and Shuster as a killer statement. Sometimes this statement killer not spoken with the specific purpose, but its impact can make other people (or you) away.

In daily life, we often actually do a series of "murders" of self. Sharp knife is a form of expression (likely) common-usual course, the kejamnya Luarbiasa.

You say: "wow, very difficult ..."
Other people say: "never, forget this finance problem. You certainly difficult, is not it? We speak other problems that make the more comfortable you are."
Sounds very kind person. Expression that makes you really had difficulty with finance problems. In fact, you just have not found the right person, which can be crystal clear with menerangkannya.

You say: "Where might I be ..."
Other people say: "I , you this problem? Later even disorganized, disorderly turvy."
Do not immediately believe the spiel on the matter of your ability. Most know what you can is the self. Replace the words "may not" with "can not". If you are interested in a particular problem, learn it. Let other people "bark".

You say: "I kan, weak in the field ..."
Other people say, "Son why IPS, like astronomy speak problem. You just, more cock ngomongin economy."
Once again, no one shall have the right to determine what is weak in the field. Said History graduate who may know only a matter of history? Not possible, he is also the basic principles of Physics and menyenanginya, eh? So, do not say weak, and do not mengiyakan the alleged weakness of the top people.

You say: "Why do I never can't Reviews?"
Other people say: "You need extra effort can be hard to have a novel. Enggak comfortable writing you read."
Now all the writing. The number of blogs have jutaaan. That is, it is also the author of the virtual world. Certainly more. Are all professional? No. Are all talented? Absolutely no. But, where there is want, there can have.
There is no IM in the world. All necessary process. Today, any posts you may be uncomfortable to read. Memangnya there is no tomorrow? And the day after tomorrow? Kejarlah you dream to be a writer, and make a novel. Make other people staring.

Start today, do not lecehkan another person, let alone themselves. No need to have a "dead" today. Also tomorrow later. Happy to make it big!

History of Names in Hantu Indonesia

Indonesian country is the number one most rich ethnic & cultural, ethnic & cultural diversity is delivered many familiar, customary, and understanding the different, the difference is also that which makes indonesian also often known by the name of the country with the number one ranking with the name of diversity in each type of ghost regions. following a short story in the bogeyman indonesian

Hantu Sundel perforated

Sundel perforated ghost myth in Indonesia described the woman and the long long bergaun white. There is also described precisely in the formation of a few closed-back hair so long organs of the body visible stomach. Dimitoskan ghost sundel perforated raped and died from the birth of her son in the grave. Usually perforated sundel also like to be told to take the babies just born.

This is a very strong manifestation described in the annual horror movie Indonesia where an 80-lot diperankan by veteran actress Suzanna.

nah he is the picture



Hantu Genderuwo

Genderuwo is being fine the shape of human large and well-knit with a thick hair covering the body. Genderuwo known in the community, especially in Java Island (Sunda people call "gandaruwo" and the Javanese call "gendruwo"). Habitat housing is kegemarannya large shade trees or corners of the dark and humid. This being reported can communicate with humans and can also be like men. The stories mentioned the mystery genderuwo if penampakan himself can change the physical shape someone. According to the story, just genderuwo pairs can menghamili men and women, even the offspring of that relationship.

Origins genderuwo said comes from the soul of the dead would not rise to the Hereafter.

Genderuwo can not be seen by ordinary people but at the time appeared certain he can feel himself when disturbed.

I just picture illustration duank yakk ..



Hantu Wewegombel

Wewe Gombel is a term in the tradition, which means evil spirit or ghost that like to steal children, but not mencelakainya. It seems that children are usually stolen children ditelantarkan and ignored by their parents. Wewe Gombel will usually menakut-nakuti parents on the child and attitudes to treatment, until they realize their children. when they have been aware, Wewe Gombel will return to his son.

According to the story, Wewe Gombel is the spirit of a woman who died suicide because people are killed because of her husband. Events that occur after the woman's husband with another woman berselingkuh. The husband do it because his wife can not give children the very diharapkannya. Finally he dijauhi ago her husband and the doghouse to be excommunicated and go mad gembel.

Wewe gombel called because the incident occurred in the area Gombel, Semarang. If we drive from the direction towards jatingaleh Banyumanik, it will show the former star of beer ads. Situlah perhaps lie in the location wewe gombel are. Some people said that this location is the location of the kingdom of ghost. According to the story, she also, this is the cause of a hotel located in the location in the hills gombel become bankrupt.

characteristics of hollow wewegombel or wewe this is the fruit of a large chest & menjumbai such as papaya fruit. Other newspapers said that the children be stolen by wewegombel will be eating Tai, Tokai, or we call it with human faeces. If the child does not want, then the child will be forced to chase suapin by force. Sometimes children will be stolen dihalusinasi Eek so that he seems to see is the most delicious food he like / want. the aim is to make children become silent in order not to be told what has he or natural form of wewegombel that is horrific.

nah he is the picture



Hantu Kuntilanak

Kuntilanak (Malay: puntianak, Pontianak) is a ghost that is derived from pregnant women who died or the woman who died because of childbirth and the child has not yet had time of birth. The name "Kuntilanak" or "Pontianak" most likely comes from the combination of the word "pregnant" (pregnant) and "children".

Pontianak city got its name because it seems Abdurrahman Alkadrie, founder of Sultanate of Pontianak, ghost disturbed when this will determine the place of the palace.

Folklor in Malay, Kuntilanak figures depicted in the form of a beautiful woman who perforated back. Kuntilanak described meneror happy villagers to respond to demand. Kuntilanak always appear when accompanied fragrant flowers cambodia. They say men are not careful can be killed after Kuntilanak change shape into penghisap blood. Kuntilanak also happy to eat babies and harm pregnant women.

In the story and eerie horror movie on television Malaysia, Kuntilanak described how the murder victim suck blood in the cervix, such as vampir.

Quite different from the picture according to Malay tradition, the tradition Kuntilanak Sunda not have a hole in the back and only with the penampakan only. Type that has a hole in the back as mentioned above description sundel air. Kuntilanak also seems like a certain tree as a place to "sit", for example, that grows waru inclined to side (popular called "waru inclined").

Spirituality penangkalan

Based on the beliefs and traditions of the community, and will not disrupt Kuntilanak pregnant women if the women are always carrying nails, knives, scissors, and when traveling anywhere. This often causes the habit put scissors, needle and a knife near the crib.

According to the Malay community of belief, sharp objects such as nails can avert attacks Kuntilanak. When Kuntilanak attack, drawing ditancapkan in the hole on the back of the neck Kuntilanak. Meanwhile, trust in other people of Indonesia, the location to drive in nails can be shifted to the top of the crown Kuntilanak.

Soeharno Lan, who is Sopir now Got Pabrik Aki ???

[Wednesday, 18 March 2009]

Lan Soeharno look very primitive. When found, he was only light blue shirt with a brown cloth trousers. There is no luxury accessories attached at the body. Not impressive at all that he is one of the battery factory owners in the area Rungkut Industry.

Where the home is not gedongan. Although able to buy luxury homes in the area elite, with his wife, male birth incantation Rogo, Banyuwangi, 7 August 1929 that more choose to live in a small old-style house in the Netherlands Praban Kulon. "House bring luck," he said. "In addition, if want to close any. There are shopping malls, markets, and place my daily calisthenics. So lazy to change," augment him.

Financially, Soeharno far short of the word. To achieve that, he confessed a life truly from the bottom. Before founding the factory, he was a driver oplet. "In fact, my father have to buy a business selling textiles. But, I'm not interested to continue the business. Nyopir I am pleased," said father of four children are.

With installments, Soeharno buy a oplet. Thanks to the persistence time in two years, he can buy two vehicles is common. One person runs, one disopiri own.

One day, people have serombongan charter opletnya to go to the night market. On the way, suddenly oplet the strike. Soeharno confused. He is blind concerning the car engine. Are known, the people who charter the rage.

I can not repair itself, Soeharno ago to go to the home mechanic with the gig. Basic apes, a mechanic was less pleased with his arrival in the night is already late. "Montirnya the end I want to get oplet the strike, but while ngamuk-ngamuk. Correct me shit. Dimarahi night person twice," kenangnya.

Above suggestion that a mechanic, esoknya Soeharno aki oplet bring to workshop. In fact, the battery should be replaced new. But, that he can not do. The grandfather of ten grandchildren do not have enough money. "The only way though oplet road again, I must betulkan own," he said.

Soeharno then learn all about the car engine and battery. The self-taught, he adds insight to the reading. The result is not disappointing. Opletnya can run with the battery that is already diperbaikinya.

In the 1956 Soeharno with his wife to move to Surabaya. Metropolis in this business he opened a store spare part of vehicles. Ability mengotak especial aki start to crawl engine. He also purchased two antique cars. Engine both raft with him a new one. "In fact, there are people who are interested to buy. I sell and the money used for business development," said the man who never wander to Jakarta and a tire business in the capital city.

Grandfather started the business assembly built Soeharno in 1970. Initially, he only improve aki-aki bekas acquired from flea markets. Many satisfied customers. So, he presume to follow a tender. Unfortunately, he can not meet the requested target time. Once the deadline, the order of 600 battery assembly, he was only able to complete the 500 units. "No I'm not able to. But, difficult to get the battery empty. Molor opportunity, but also finally met the demand," said he.

Above suggestion a friend, Soeharno then go to Taiwan. There, she learned a lot of battery problems. In 1978 men who love to play the harmonic buy land to build a battery factory. "Time is still the only one in Surabaya. If there are other factory, the only branch of the foreign country," he was emphatic.

Since then his business thrive. 75 percent of man-made battery manufacturer at this time produced for export and 25 percent fill the local market. Battery production has penetrated to some areas, such as Saudi Arabia, Africa, New Zealand, Australia, Fiji Islands, Hong Kong, and Taiwan. "In accordance with the appeal to the president bring in more income, I only focus on exports," he said then smiled. (war / Ayi)

About Soeharno Lan

Born: Rogo incantation, Banyuwangi, 7 August 1929

Wife: Sri Soeharni (78)

Children: Bambang Soeyono (59)

Dr Bambang Soegiyanto SPB (57)

Bambang Soewarno (54)

Ir Bambang Soewadji (52)

Grandchildren: 10

Great-grandchild: 13

Got a call from Mr. Ateng original name Lim Sin Teng-Meng.

Favorite food: know, tempe, and soy sauce.

Hobbies: blowing harmonic, acrobatics, and up used car.

Bowlful white rice

Based on True Story

On an evening twenty years ago, there is a youth
that seems like a student traverse down the
front of a fast food restaurant in the metropolitan city, waiting
to guests in the restaurant is quite quiet, with nature and the shrink
timid to enter him in the restaurant. "I served my
bowlful of white rice. "
With the flag say to the young owner of this restaurant.

A pair of young couple eating house owner, consider this young man
just ask bowlful of white rice and side dish does not order anything, and
serve bowlful of white rice for him.

When young people receive this, and white rice are said to pay the
slowly, "can flush a little sauce over the vegetables in my rice."

House owner's wife said with a smile: "Take only what
you like, do not have to pay! "

Before eating out, this young man thought: "free vegetable sauce." Then
book a bowlful of white rice again.
"Bowlful not enough young people, this time I will give more
more rice. "With friendly smiles restaurant owner said
to this youth. But the youth replied, "No, I will bring
home, tomorrow will be brought to school as my lunch! "

Hear the words of this youth, restaurant owners think this young man
of poor families from outside the city, demand for science came
to the city, looking for money for the school itself, the difficulties in the financial
to be sure. Thinking there until the owners put the restaurant ago
a piece of meat and eggs are hidden under the rice, then
enwrap rice is seen only a glimpse sebungkus white rice
and give this young man.

See deeds, his wife knew her husband are helping
This young man, only he does not understand why the meat and eggs
hidden under the rice? Her husband then membisik to him:
"If we see this young man put in the side dish of rice, he would feel
that we give charity to him, his price will shoulder another
times he will not come again, if he just buy another ketempat bowlful
white rice, which is nutrition for the school. "

"You really kind of you, people are still helping to keep prices
himself. "

"If I is not good, whether you will be istriku?" Pair
This young couple was happy to help other people.

"Thank you, I have finished eating." This youth farewell to them.
When he was taking a pack of rice, he saw the body to reverse
with the view of grateful to them.

"Tomorrow come around again, you should still vibrant!" He said while
wave, in a word meant to invite the youth is tomorrow
do not shrink from coming again.

This pair of young eyes glisten compassionate, starting at the time each
youth this afternoon to stop by their house to eat, same as any ordinary
only eat bowlful of white rice and bring home sebungkus
stock for the next day. To be sure the rice is brought home every
day there is a hidden side dish is different every day, until the youth
this conclusion, for 20 years this young man did not appear again.

One day, when the husband is already over the age of 50 years,
government to fly home a letter that they must eat
digusur, suddenly lost their livelihoods and their children remember
the disekolahkan abroad who need to charge every couple months to make this
embrace with the crying panic.

At this time a young man who entered the clothing brand
it seems like the director's office bonafid.
"How are you? I was deputy director of a company, I
be governed by the director we invite you to open a diner in
our company, our company has provided all of them, you only
need to bring the chef and expertise to it, the benefits will be divided
2 with the company. "

"Who is the director of the company you?, Why so good to
we? I do not remember a man who knew so glorious! "pair
couple this with a great saying.

"You are good friends and helpers in our directors, our director
most like to eat eggs, and jerked meat is made, only that I
know, that after you meet her you can ask him. "

Finally, youth who only eat white rice bowlful this appears,
after digging for 20 years finally this young man can
kerajaaan build the business and is now a director of the
success for the kingdom business.

He felt at the time of this success is thanks to support a pair of husband
wife, if they do not help him he might not be able to
complete the course and become as successful as now.

After talked, husband and wife want to leave this farewell
office.

This young man standing from a chair with the bow and Director
in-in said to them: "I flushed! At a later
company depends on you, to meet tomorrow! "

Kindness and forever indebted to reply in the life of man is
it is the most beautiful and melt.

Compassionate? Get started ........ & please feel free to do good
today.

You never know ... what will happens tomorrow.

TTD.
Myrna Sawitri

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Article: the strength of reason and Gentleness Exercise

Hurray,
New Day!
Friends.

What distinguishes the human being with others? We say, 'intellect'. Humans have the intellect, while the other is not sentient. That is why people can claim themselves as being the most perfect of God. For, with the understand that people can do so many things that can not be a cat, rabbit, or jasmine. Unfortunately, not all of which can be used for the human good fellow. Because in reality, our intellect are often used to 'mengakal-akali' way to do anything for the sake of a few individuals or groups. Therefore, many of the bitter fruits of man's intellect. Thus, to be the 'perfect being' like klaimnya, man must have other tools. So that the intellect can understand offset by wisdom from within himself. Whatever tools are?

Occasionally, we need to pay attention to the turtle. A turtle that would surely be running out of his head in tempurungnya. And this is a hint that a turtle on the right that we must use our head aka the brain and intellect that we thought we could do this and that. Without the head we can not build a copyrighted work of any kind. For, kepalalah center of all creative power of imaginative menusia that help produce various kinds of invention. So, we can build a civilization. That's correct.

But, let's look at the turtles that once again. In the way, he often stops. And stopped when she was over her head back into the body shell tempurungnya. Then he was silent. Whatever foreshadow this? This is a reminder for us to sign that damned the intellect, that, occasionally we have to attract the power of intellect to the back of the screen. Then juxtapose the kedada where we sit in the ordinary things that we as a conscience. For, the word tortoise 'conscience that will help lead us rationally thinking'.

When the intellect is running alone, then we thought the results would only be a process of exploration and exploitation on the benefits, convenience, comfort and things like that. What are the others? Intellect is not unduly concerned, because its main function is to make our lives easier and more beautiful. Concerning another person or subject to indemnification by the rule-principle dihasilkannya, is another matter. That is why many people are doing without regard to moral, environmental, or the interests of others. Other people for their land is to be exploited. That is also the reason why many people do not care about the interests of the neighbors only to meet the interests of his family home and quite. Neighbors for them is the object that can be sacrificed for the sake of himself.

Turtle said, "Stop a moment's outrageously preposterous you use. And occasionally Invite yourself to berkontemplasi the conscience."

Incredible once. When someone follows the advice spleen, it appeared that he found that the intellect is not everything. Thus the person who unduly use intellect will never be successful sentient perfect. Because, human perfection is obtained from the use of the balance between intellect and heart. When someone uses only the heart, he was a good person who is less productive. And when someone is only using the intellect, then he will become a very competitive person destruktif. But, when someone using the intellect and heart in a blend harmony, he was a people who uphold the high values of humanity itself.

And once startling, because when he hatinyalah combine all the works to be copyrighted maslahat understand not only for himself. But for other people. When the larger scope of influence, the broad positive impact. So, perhaps a later time, he can contribute to the interests of all mankind. Because, rationally sophistication pikirannya offset by consideration for the conscience kemaslahatan together. Not just private interests. For, reason and the heart is like two pieces of currency that can not be separated. Without intellect, the heart can not live enough. And without the heart, intellect often create damage. Meanwhile, with the intellect and heart, we can contribute to each other.

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Motivation of The Day: "Who Educate These Children?"

After the wheel too long after I stop in the village of 
briefly in a restaurant. Once the food order, a son 
aged approximately 12 years appear in front of me. 

"Abang want to buy a cake?" He said with a smile. Right hand 
menyelak banana leaves that cover a cake basket jajanannya. 

"No Dik, Abang food is the message," I answered, and finally summary 
he passed away. 

The order arrived, I enjoy them. Is the 20 minutes and then 
I see children earlier about other potential buyers. I see him 
about a pair of husband and wife. They also reject the bid of children, 
and so he passed it. 

"Abang have to eat, did not want me to buy a cake?" tanyanya calm when 
about my table again. 

"Abang new Dik finished eating, I still satisfied," said I, while 
slap repeatedly stomach. He went, but only around the restaurant. 
Until he put in there that are still full bakulnya. Each of 
ago he ask, "I want to buy cakes Bang, Pak ... sister, mother ...." Subtile 
I thought it was cultivated. 

While attention, terbersit admirable, and compassion in my heart 
gigihnya see how he tries. No visible sigh or moan 
signs of despair in himself, even people who ditemuinya 
reluctant to buy kuenya. 

After paying the price of food and drink, I continue to go to the car .. 
I open the door, sit down and fix the doors close. But have not 
I turn on the machine, before the child is standing on the side of the car. He 
smile to me. I down a glass window, and reply 
senyumannya. 

"Abang is satisfied, but may need to take Abang cake I made 
by-by for the brother-sister, mother or father's brother, "he said politely, the 
a smile. Once again he set out with a cake in the basket 
menyelak banana leaf penutupnya. 

Tatap my face, clean and homely. Terpantul feelings of pity in 
heart. So I open the wallet, and pay out money sheet Rp 20.000, -- 
him. 

"Take this Dik! Charity Abang Abang ... No need to buy the cake." I 
said heartfelt feelings of pity for the sudden increase. Son 
receive the money, then thanked running 
back to the sidewalk restaurants. I'm happy to help. . 

After I turn the car engine. I'm back. Would kagetnya 
I see children that extend Rp20.000, - giving it to me 
a blind beggar. I'm surprised, I stop the car, and call 
son. 

"Why Bang, I want to buy a cake?" tanyanya. 

"Why give money Abang younger brother earlier in the beggar? Duit that Abang 
to give younger brother! "I said without a question. 

"Bang, I can not take the money .. Emak angry if he knew I 
sponge. Emak words we must look for work because the living God. 
If he knows I take as much money home, while selling 
many, Mak definitely angry. Mak said beg people not to work 
attempt, I still strongly Bang! "he said as well. I wonder 
at once impressed with the grip of life the child. Without a lot of problems I 
continue to ask how the price of all the cakes in the basket. 

"Abang all want to buy?" he asked and I just nod. Tongue 
I want to say dumb. 

"Rp 25.000, - Bang ...." With joy he entered one by one 
kuenya in plastic, I ulurkan Rp 25.000, -. He said 
thank you and go out of my view. 

Yes Lord!. I can only wonder in the heart, women who 
the high-minded "and" educate the child?. Indeed, I 
impressed with sikapnya. He made me, who we actually .. 

originally posted by frank_jmx 

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One More, No Warok Figure

Ponorogo - News City of mourning shroud Reyog. One again, figures warok Ponorogo, Heru Subeno Kang, died Wednesday (4 / 3) at 21:00. Figure known as the artist is sincere dimakamkan in Public Places Funeral (TPU) Tonatan, yesterday (5 / 3).

Take a funeral procession of wisdom. Feel Ponoragan very thick accompany the departure of the hearse along the way home in tears Totanatan Kelurahan, Kecamatan Ponorogo, the latest health. Family during the great figures of his life to the development of torrential art Reyog no power meneteskan tears. Not the exception of the artists reyog, they lose the people who claim to render a progress for the sake of art Reyog.

Budi Satrijo, Foundation secretary Reyog Ponorogo known close to the deceased Subeno Heru, said warok born 23 October 1958 since it is very small like the reyog. Struggle to raise art reyog be weary with toil. We boast''that he did not make other people,''he said on the sidelines of the escort to the funeral hearse.

According to him, concern and dedication Kang Heru Subeno on the development of the arts, which is now maskot Ponorogo and Indonesia, is high enough. In fact, the deceased during his life willing to continue to wrestle in the art reyog. No''both of them in totality, he reyog devote the progress that has been go international this,''explained.

Of creativity as an artist reyog, Kang Subeno Heru gave birth to monumental works. Ie warok shorts dance in a sacred dance art reyog and development Ponoragan unique dialect. Kang Heru''not only belong to Ponorogo. But all the artists and people who love to reyog,''he said. (Dip / sad)


Subeno Heru.
TTL: Madiun, 23 - 10 - 1958.
Address: Jl. Sekar Putih No. 28 Ponorogo.
Phone (0352) 485317.
Education: graduate STKW Surabaya 1984.
Experience berkesenian:
Organized dance Reog Bulk PRJ (1988),
Organized happy happy dance (1991),
Organized Edrek dance (1994),
Director of a ballet in the park Reog Candra wilwatikta (1998),
Assistant film director Suromenggolo TVRI National (2004),
Art reog ambassador to Japan (1997),
Art Reog ambassador to New Zealand (2003),
Art Reog ambassador to Taiwan (2005).

source: jawapos.co.id, brangwetan.wordpress.com, Ponorogozone.com

"of Success."

I'm in I see the blog itself. Children are sleeping so that "the world" has been calm enough to make me concentrate more. My wife come take a drink. Laid-cup, and interesting, and sitting in the chair next to me. One minute later he asked about the flag or sub-header in the bunyinya My blog, "I Want Your Success. I Must Make Your Success."

"What if people ask, whether Mas Sopa already successful? So with the already mengantongi license others to succeed? What's Mas?"

I turned and smiled. "I will say that I am not successful. Kesuksesanku will depend on the success of others. If other people become successful, then I will also be successful."

My wife mengernyitkan dahinya. I also play the body. Time for discussion.

Did you know that your success depends on something outside yourself? Nah lho! Sopa what this pack yet, yesterday said that there is success in itself. Jennie S. Bev said that even the successful Sayalah. Kok is now so more?

No. Others do not. This is just a matter of perspective. Let's browse, and remember that this close relationship with the mastermind concept and mind power.

Success depends on your success "things" outside of you. Something that other people can, or indeed "something" just outside there. Something outside of you can live or die thing. Basically, something is definitely outside the "you".

If your employee or employees, how you achieve success? How do I get a promotion? What you need to do to your career melejit up to the top? What you need to achieve in order to achieve success as your employees or employees?

First, you need to succeed and your job duties. Second, you need to successfully program your company or organization. Third, your boss you need to succeed. Fourth, you need to succeed your company or organization. After that, then you can be successful.

If your manager, what you need so you can be successful as a manager?

You must be the fruit your child succeed.

If you are a teacher, lecturer, trainer, coach, mentor, motivator or what you need so you can be successful as a professional in the fields of that?

You must succeed student, students, and your trainee. When they come out of the classroom, they need to feel successful, not you. After that, then you can be called as a constructor and a successful educator.

If you who produce shoes, what you need so you can be referred to as the successful businessman?

You need to succeed your shoes, so that a choice of shoes. Shoes that are interested, tune, search for, and purchased. If that is successfully achieved, then you called it a successful businessman.

If you are the seller meatball? Yes you need to succeed meatball you first, then you can be referred to as a successful trader meatball.

If you are the author? You must make your book a success, for example, with a best seller. Then in the back, you will be called a successful author.

If your citrus fruit farmers?

First you need to succeed citrus seedlings you to continue to survive and safe from all diseases and pests. Second, you must mensukseskannya to bear fruit. Third, you need to mensukseskannya can stand up to cooking in a tree so that its quality is good. In fact, you also must succeed in order to taste sweet and fresh. Then, you need to succeed sales. Already? Yet! You must also chew mensukseskannya that each consumer can leave the former success. Then you called a successful farmer.

Yes. Success depends on the success of the other things outside of yourself.

You will be able to find out whether you will be successful or not, if you can predict success or not something outside you.

So, if you feel waspadalah not be in office for a comfortable with your boss. That's a sign that you are not successful in its place there. You, a potential success in the office as long as it "not comfortable" is still there.

Waspada lah, if you feel bored with your profession geluti. That's a sign that you will not be successful in the profession.

Waspada lah, if you can not feel the students, student, or trainee you with all the whimsy and its polah. You will not be successful as a coach and teacher.

Waspadalah, if you hate your subordinate. You will not succeed as a leader. That means, organization, and your company is also a successful future in your hands.

So how, to change profession? Moving office? Change the product? Exchange plant? Not as well.

Find an initial point is most important to your success is, that is your mindset. Find that reason and also thought you were out of "you".

If for this you think that "you" is your intellect; stop. In fact, you are a resourceful tool tool completeness aka "you". You are a user of your intellect, not vice versa.

Understand that it's your intellect, also located outside the "you". Your intellect is your instrument of humanity. So the first thing you need to do, is "succeed" reason and your mind. Then with the "you" is easier to become successful. How to succeed your mind and intellect? You know what to do.

If you are successful, you do not need to change professions or move to the office, field, or the work of others. Guaranteed, you will succeed there.

Now you can put the right, where the location based on successful examples of this concept?

"Do what you want"
"Do what you senangi"
"Comments or testimony"
"Advertising and promotions"
"Work hard"
"Human beings are social as well as individuals"
"You have to work together"
"People are both the most people the most useful"
"Heroes without decoration"

Your success, can only succeed if you create something outside you.

Yes. I wish you success. I have to make you successful. (Only with achieving that, I will achieve the success I am.)

My wife went. "Yes already. So I can sleep 'before."

This post is a mandatory part of:

"A Game of Success."

Dare to laugh

An interesting research that says that a small child / baby laugh every day on average as much as 300 times. But rather with the adults - the age of 30, 40, 50 years - on average only laugh 15 times a day. So we experienced a decrease of 300 times the baby only to 15 times a day. What's with us?

If we renung there was a striking change from different since boyhood us. Creativity - the courage to think outside the box / habits -, wishes to see, curiosity is great - always ask what are we living in -, slowly began to dim in ourselves.

We have lost our capacity to live healthy because we lose the ability to laugh. And too many see the sadness, melancholy, disappointment in our lives.

There are interesting things, see if you have 5 people on the edge there, which is 4 and 1 person laughing is crying, who will you see?

In fact people who cry that you will see. So we should have to learn to see if there are events such as such, then we select the regard laugh and forget the crying.

Because what? Because we want to live healthy. A research shows that healthy people are those who like to laugh, love to smile and rejoice. Because life will thus become more healthy and longer age.

So make us learn to be like a child again. So that we dare to shriek with laughter on the funny or just a little funny. With a child we dare to think creative - think outside the customs people. And therefore we are ready for anything in this world with a laugh, smile and optimistic. If so would run our lives will be better in this world.

Wassalam.