By the mama papa, I BECOME A civil servant!

If the survey conducted registration CPNS (Civil Affairs Officer Candidate), "Why do you register CPNS?". I dare bet, more than 50% of the answer is because of the encouragement of parents. The reason for the most classic is the old age security (retirement) and security work. With a myriad of regulations that have protection, it is very difficult to sack civil servants. The second one is a pride for their parents, if their children can receive as civil servants, because not appeal in 1000 received 1. The third reason, (hopefully I do not think like this) earnings may be small, but ceperannya gedhe. I have a fourth reason, but hopefully no longer valid, are reading newspapers and roads, while wages remain the way. Well, hopefully the third and fourth reason is dibumihanguskan in this era of reform.

On the other hand, I have a fellow businessman in Pekanbaru. New age turn 27 years old, but already have a business turnover of more than 100 million monthly, with net profits average 20 million monthly. After trying more than 2 years, with earnings far above the salary of a bank manager, his father, he still wanted to sign up for CPNS. His name also culture 'east', the parents must be obeyed. Sign up so he tests the CPNS. Indeed, basically 'brilliant' otaknya, he became a candidate diterimalah government officials. The question, what he will chase each other? Salary? Under 2 million perbulannya, aka 10% of what he can in the business. Prestige? What would digengsikan with such earnings? At most enough for nyicil motor. Itupun him if he has not cut corners and eat ria. Most importantly, make it do what it's all? By the parents!

Now we search what the motives of the parents, especially his father. Usut have usut, the father looked 'shock' of a ride down incomes. Indeed, in the age of 2 new annual revenue it only fair up and down. But, if diakumulasi, what he shot for 2 years, with the assets that he owned, home and car, which may be purchased with a 10-year salary of civil servants? Unless corruption! Ok, we focus to aja 'goal' father ordered his son so civil servants, as in 'KESEJAHTERAAN', period! Be a 'civil service' is not the main goal of the father, but it is a facility (the father know) to achieve the goal (safe). . You catch my meaning? If we focus on the objective, I can be flexible.

Imagine if we impose something that does not like our children, to be done. Being a civil service that is not the dream of the father of the child's dream? How many cases of parents forcing dreams to their children. Not only civil servants, may also become doctors, accountants, architects, engineers, and whatever that, if not the obsession that the child, why we 'tega' seize their happiness? With reason 'for the good of them,' betulkah? Not for 'comfort' parents, though children will not mind so what?

If you see a prosperous and happy children is the goal of parents, I let them "be themselves", not other people. Except, her son still does not have a clear direction or melenceng, is another matter. My opinion is often requested by colleagues who got the case of 'rape professions' such as this. What's my suggestion? My first question, the important objective is prosperous, so that you can buktikan sejahter in a way that you believe. Aja balanced risk, "What if you choose the profession rebel your parents want, you are considered a rebel and outcast?" If the answer is' no ', do so only in accordance keinginanmu. Yet a time they will see that what you do is' right '. But it all must be underlined, "Communicate with a polite and appropriate time."



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Jaya Setiabudi

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